"A Man's Love..."
Some times I feel I am out of practice
                 with love
For love is that way of engaging myself
                 with someone else - of allowing myself
                 to become deeply involved in the life
                 of another person.
Only Jesus knows how much I need to love ... and to be loved.
                 How much I need for someone to care for me
                           and let me care for them.
                 How much I need to crawl into a life and live there
                           and to let someone in behind my own mask
                 And walk around, looking at me as I really am.
Love does that, you know. It has no secrets. It is truthful in relationships.
                 It desires to expose itself, and in the exposing it gives and gives
                                        and never stops.
I can speak only as a man, for I have known love only
                from this perspective.
                Thus whether it is a man for a woman
                                        a daddy for his daughter (or his son),
                                        a child for his aging parents,
                                        a friend for a friend,
                                        or the warm, gentle touch of the Father
                                                    for His wandering child.
Love reaches out to give ... and to forgive.
                 Yes, always to forgive.
Love, real love, needs no stimulation
                 No prodding.
It is always there in our waking moments
                 in our dreams.
Absence makes it stronger
                 Time mellows it
                 Miles do not destroy it
Pain and suffering only give it a deeper understanding.
Love sparkles in a touch,
                 finds a resting place in a smile
                 is matured in tears
                 and is satisfied in reckless giving ~
                                        the kind where there is no thought
                                        of receiving in return.
It is sexless, raceless, ageless, timeless.
                 It is God in you and in me
                 reaching out to give.

 
ADT 01/07/87©          ~ Jamie Buckingham ~



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